HB7 resists to kino
I went to this gathering at this house. My intent was not to sarge, but rather to get to know some people there who would help me with a small project I’m working on.
So I get there, and I don’t know anybody. The hostess says hi, and through her I get to pretty much go around the whole social circles there. It was not a party with loud music, so I was just having interesting conversations with the different people there.
This girl, HB7, is clearly interested in me. Either it’s because she saw me as socially comfortable, or because she was directly attracted to me, or both. I eventually start talking with her and isolate her to a couch.
In the couch, and after my recent string of fucked-up day 2s, I stayed clearly away from all the wrong topics. Instead, I started qualifying , asking her: “What do you do? No, not your job, but what do you DO, as a passion?”
Luckily enough for me she says she writes stuff. I myself have been scribbling in a small journal of mine for a while now, so I start asking and talking about the emotions behind writing.
Me: “Writing for me is not like this thing you can program in advance, it’s like this urge, this tension that needs to get out” I went on on how the urge and tension need to be thrown on paper, and bla bla bla.
All the time I was talking slowly, and pointing to myself. Not sure if it’s a good thing to self point, coz it logically meant I was a piece of paper and that she has this urge to dump ink on me :-) . But I guessed that since girls ain’t logical, it’s the emotions I was stirring in her that mattered .
I think it worked, she was staring at me, lips parted and all that. And when it was time to leave she said how the time passed so fast she didn’t notice. One IOI was that, as she was talking about herself, she mentioned her boyfriend, but said “my boyfriend” in such a low voice that it was clear she didn’t want me to give it any attention (and I didn’t). I had asked her before who she knew here, and luckily she knew no one, so no cockblocking happened , and I could game her uninterrupted.
Fast forward to the day 2, like a week after. (this sunday)
I tried to plan it as much as possible. I told her I wanted to go to this cool ice cream place (which, coincidentally, just HAPPENS to be near my place ). We got the ice cream and then I told her that I needed to buy juice, and that we could eat the ice cream in my air-conditioned room.
Now the problem was she was resistant to kino. Throughout our entire interaction I could see she was attracted, but didn’t want the kino.
When I said I wanted to go home to drop the juice, she mentioned how she preferred that we sit outside afterwards. Regardless, I went in, and poured some juice in a glass. In my room, she was on the bed, and I manoeuvered myself on it also.
Then I tried more stories, more kino, even the evolution phase shift just for the fuck of it (not to get the kiss, but just for more kino!) and still that resistance.
I then walked her to the metro entrance, we kissed realy close to the mouth, and when i tried kissing her, she had a timid smile and leaned back, gesturing silently with her hand for me to slow down.
Here is my take on it:
-I wasn’t showing enough of a sexual frame. Somehow the vibe I was giving off was that of the nice guy/boyfriend material. The thing is she HAS a boyfriend, so what the fuck!? Is she testing the waters with me to see if she can dump him for a better provider??
-She is CLEARLY attracted to me, and a such might be trying to cocktease me and control me by controlling the sex.
The good points:
-I started instinctively knowing how to steer the convo towards the emotions behind every topic.
-I qualified her.
-I planned the day 2 logsitics well, and got her in my bed relatively smoothly.
-But the best thing is that I DON”T GIVE A SHIT. She is barely a 7, and I got two girls who are hotter than her that I’m currently gaming. I had none of that scarcity mentality.
So I’m gonna wait for her to call, and then I’ll set the apropriate rules (basically we go back to my place and fuck or you’re out). And if she doesn’t call I don’t really care.
Cheers,
F.
So I get there, and I don’t know anybody. The hostess says hi, and through her I get to pretty much go around the whole social circles there. It was not a party with loud music, so I was just having interesting conversations with the different people there.
This girl, HB7, is clearly interested in me. Either it’s because she saw me as socially comfortable, or because she was directly attracted to me, or both. I eventually start talking with her and isolate her to a couch.
In the couch, and after my recent string of fucked-up day 2s, I stayed clearly away from all the wrong topics. Instead, I started qualifying , asking her: “What do you do? No, not your job, but what do you DO, as a passion?”
Luckily enough for me she says she writes stuff. I myself have been scribbling in a small journal of mine for a while now, so I start asking and talking about the emotions behind writing.
Me: “Writing for me is not like this thing you can program in advance, it’s like this urge, this tension that needs to get out” I went on on how the urge and tension need to be thrown on paper, and bla bla bla.
All the time I was talking slowly, and pointing to myself. Not sure if it’s a good thing to self point, coz it logically meant I was a piece of paper and that she has this urge to dump ink on me :-) . But I guessed that since girls ain’t logical, it’s the emotions I was stirring in her that mattered .
I think it worked, she was staring at me, lips parted and all that. And when it was time to leave she said how the time passed so fast she didn’t notice. One IOI was that, as she was talking about herself, she mentioned her boyfriend, but said “my boyfriend” in such a low voice that it was clear she didn’t want me to give it any attention (and I didn’t). I had asked her before who she knew here, and luckily she knew no one, so no cockblocking happened , and I could game her uninterrupted.
Fast forward to the day 2, like a week after. (this sunday)
I tried to plan it as much as possible. I told her I wanted to go to this cool ice cream place (which, coincidentally, just HAPPENS to be near my place ). We got the ice cream and then I told her that I needed to buy juice, and that we could eat the ice cream in my air-conditioned room.
Now the problem was she was resistant to kino. Throughout our entire interaction I could see she was attracted, but didn’t want the kino.
When I said I wanted to go home to drop the juice, she mentioned how she preferred that we sit outside afterwards. Regardless, I went in, and poured some juice in a glass. In my room, she was on the bed, and I manoeuvered myself on it also.
Then I tried more stories, more kino, even the evolution phase shift just for the fuck of it (not to get the kiss, but just for more kino!) and still that resistance.
I then walked her to the metro entrance, we kissed realy close to the mouth, and when i tried kissing her, she had a timid smile and leaned back, gesturing silently with her hand for me to slow down.
Here is my take on it:
-I wasn’t showing enough of a sexual frame. Somehow the vibe I was giving off was that of the nice guy/boyfriend material. The thing is she HAS a boyfriend, so what the fuck!? Is she testing the waters with me to see if she can dump him for a better provider??
-She is CLEARLY attracted to me, and a such might be trying to cocktease me and control me by controlling the sex.
The good points:
-I started instinctively knowing how to steer the convo towards the emotions behind every topic.
-I qualified her.
-I planned the day 2 logsitics well, and got her in my bed relatively smoothly.
-But the best thing is that I DON”T GIVE A SHIT. She is barely a 7, and I got two girls who are hotter than her that I’m currently gaming. I had none of that scarcity mentality.
So I’m gonna wait for her to call, and then I’ll set the apropriate rules (basically we go back to my place and fuck or you’re out). And if she doesn’t call I don’t really care.
Cheers,
F.
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